Sunday, December 23, 2012

Brunch~Solace Sunday

The concept of brunch is so unique...breakfast and lunch combined...ha ha ha...

Today find solace in spending time with family and friends over a nice meal or should I say brunch...

Here are a few of my favorite spots to enjoy brunch with my family:


  • Detroit Cheesecake Bistro http://detroitscheesecakebistro.com/ 
  • Hudson Cafe http://www.hudson-cafe.com/  

  • J. Alexanders http://www.jalexanders.com/index.php 

4 Fashion Resolutions for 2013

2013 is just day away and as we make resolutions about being a better people in the year to come its also time to reinvent or clean-up your look!

My fashion resolution is to start wearing all of the clothes in my closet and to stop just buying any and everything I think is cute at that moment. I must admit, I'm an impulse shopper!

Adapted from College Fashion, here are 4 Fashion Resolutions for the New Year:


  1. 1. Organize Your Wardrobe-having an organized closet only allows you to better find the right outfit for any occasion. Color coordinate, assimilate by style of clothing (casual, professional, lounge wear), etc.  
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    2. Discover Your Signature Style-most people have a hard time with this one. Is there a certain type of shoe you wear the most? Do you have an obsession with accessories? Find inspiration for your signature look through comparing your favorite celebrities looks to pictures of yourself.
    3. Challenge Yourself Style Wise-if you wear pants all of the time try wearing dresses for a whole week. Pick 5 new looks you want to try and test them out.
    4. Splurge on the right items-women in my family have a problem with shoes...they do not mind spending big bucks for the cutest footwear to accessorize an assemble. If you like watches, shoes, handbags, outerwear, it is perfectly fine to splurge on it. Besides you're spending it on yourself and those more expensive pieces are versatile to your entire collection. I have a Jimmy Choo purse that a pretty penny was spent on and it looks fabulous every time  I wear it! 

Have fun in the new year with jazzing up your wardrobe! 

ShORT & sIMple



(Wisdom Wednesday)


I'll make this short and simple..."good things don't last forever." When you have something good hold onto it. Make this most out of your opportunity or experience. Nothing lasts forever....


~Motivating from a far~Ari

Saturday, December 22, 2012

My Kourt-Part 1



     Young and dumb is what I would say to my younger self. I was reckless as a teen but I grew out of that, Thank God! I did so many things you would never even dream of, but its all in the past and that’s where it is going to stay because I am happy with a loving fiance with a precious little one on the way. I am my own boss, which I always dreamed about and everything is going just right.
     The summer iss coming to an end and business will be slowing down and I’ll have a little more time to myself and maybe even take a vacation before the baby comes next year. Roman and I have to start this wedding planning soon. If it was up to him we would have been married a year ago, but I do admit it is my fault because I tend to get wrapped up at work a lot, but I am ready to sit down, focus on planning and become Mrs. Dodson, but as of right now I need to hurry up and get dressed and head over to my girl Jasmin’s house for her birthday.
     I am so exhausted I don’t even feel like going but I promised and she is my best friend and all the other girls have been complaining about how I don’t come around no more because I’m always working so I have to go this time.
     When I arrived, I sent Roman a text letting him know that I got there safely and I would see him when I got home after every one had gotten liquor in their system and I could slip out without anyone noticing. He quickly texted back, ” Okay baby, see you when you get home. I love you,” and I hopped out of the car and walked right in the house. Ain’t like she ever locked her doors.
      Everyone was already there, bottles were already all over  the table, music was blasting and Jasmin had one drink in each hand.
     “Ay Jaz, what I tell you about locking your doors?” I said as I hugged her.
     “Yea yea yea whatever girl.”
     “Well Happy Birthday, love. Everybody downstairs?”
     “Yea come on, let’s get you a drank.”
     “Now you know I can’t drink.”
     “Damn…that’s right. I keep forgetting. Well come on we’ll get you some cranberry juice and a shot of oj.”
     We both burst into laughter and walked downstairs to the basement.

     “Ay everyone, look who is still alive,” she announced to everyone.
    All I heard was comments like, “Whoa Marrissa actually came to something?” “Did the world end?” “Who dragged you here?”
     “Ya’ll got jokes, I see.”
     “We still love you though,” Jasmin said squeezing me extra tight and kissing me on my cheek.
      I danced my way over to the table of food and made me a plate of chicken wings, spicy spaghetti, and pasta salad and sat down next to my friend, Mariah. We chitchatted for a few minutes catching each other up on what had been going on in our lives because we haven’t seen each other in over a month.
     After Jasmin had made herself yet another drink she waltzed her little butt over to where Mariah and I were sitting, then I realized that I didn’t see Kourtney.
     “Jaz, where is Kourtney? I talked to her yesterday she said she was coming.”
     “Awe she was here a little earlier, they called her into work tonight.”
    “Oh so when Kourtney has to work, its okay? But when I have to work, everybody want to have a fit?” I questioned jokingly.
     “Uhh yea! Kourtney comes to everything. You don’t! So hush your mouth!” She said while shaking her butt in my face, laughing hysterically.
     “You are a fool. Get your ass out my face!” I replied pushing her away.

     Everyone who was at the get-together, I had been friends with for at least 7 or 8 years. It was a group of 7 of us, but Kourtney and Jasmin were my best friends and had been best friends for about 15 years now. We met in eighth grade and had been inseparable ever since. Our mothers always referred to us as twins, and you would think that we were twins if she wasn’t white. I love both my girls to death. They got me through the toughest times of my life. I couldn’t picture my life without those crazy two.

Hours had passed and it was a little after midnight and waaayyyyy past my bedtime so I said my goodbyes, kissed the drunken birthday girl and headed back home. I couldn’t wait to get back home in my cozy bed next to my snoring fiancĂ©.

Back at Roman and Jasmin’s house…
“You know we can’t do this anymore,” Kourtney says breaking the silence.
“You say this every time,” replied Roman rolling his eyes.
“I know, but this is the last time okay?”
“Hmmm mmm okay,” Roman says with a huge smirk on his face.
He kissed her on the forehead, pulled up his boxers, and lead her out of the house.

Thursday, December 20, 2012

Truth is...We are losing lives left & right

2012 was filled with 1 too many tragedies and here is a list of what occurred...

February 22, 2012—Five people were killed in at a Korean health spa in Norcross, Georgia, when a man opened fire inside the facility in an act suspected to be related to domestic violence.

February 26, 2012—Multiple gunmen began firing into a nightclub crown in Jackson, Tennessee, killing one person and injuring 20 others.

February 27, 2012—Three students at Chardon High School in rural Ohio were killed when a classmate opened fire.

March 8, 2012—Two people were killed and seven wounded at a psychiatric hospital in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, when a gunman entered the hospital with two semiautomatic handguns and began firing.

March 31, 2012—A gunman opened fire on a crowd of mourners at a North Miami, Florida, funeral home, killing two people and injuring 12 others.

April 2, 2012—A 43-year-old former student at Oikos University in Oakland, California, walked into his former school and killed seven people, “execution-style.” Three people were wounded.

April 6, 2012—Two men went on a deadly shooting spree in Tulsa, Oklahoma, shooting black men at random in an apparently racially motivated attack. Three men died and two were wounded.

May 29, 2012—A man in Seattle, Washington, opened fire in a coffee shop and killed five people and then himself.

July 9, 2012—At a soccer tournament in Wilmington, Delaware, three people were killed, including a 16-year-old player and the event organizer, when multiple gunmen began firing shots, apparently targeting the organizer.

July 20, 2012—James Holmes enters a midnight screening of The Dark Knight Rises and opens fire with a semi-automatic weapon; twelve people are killed and fifty-eight are wounded.

August 5, 2012—A white supremacist and former Army veteran shot six people to death inside a Sikh temple in suburban Milwaukee, Wisconsin, before killing himself.

August 14, 2012—Three people were killed at Texas A&M University when a 35-year-old man went on a shooting rampage; one of the dead was a police officer.

September 27, 2012—A 36-year-old man who had just been laid off from Accent Signage Systems in Minneapolis, Minnesota, entered his former workplace and shot five people to death, and wounded three others before killing himself.

October 21, 2012—45-year-old Radcliffe Frankin Haughton shot three women to death, including his wife, Zina Haughton, and injured four others at a spa in Brookfield, Wisconsin, before killing himself.

December 11, 2012—A 22-year-old began shooting at random at a mall near Portland, Oregon, killing two people and then himself.

December 14, 2012—One man, and possibly more, murders a reported twenty-six people at an elementary school in Newtown, Connecticut, including twenty children, before killing himself.




And although the Trayvon Martin shooting wasn't listed it was one of the most talked about shootings along with the Dark Knight shooting, Sikh temple shooting, and the most recent shooting in Newtown Connecticut.

But why? Why are people just taking others lives so easily and without hesitation? What goes on in the minds of these people?

I was talking to my best friend the other day and we were talking about the realities of America, about capitalism, about the main focus of money in this country, and how every one is just so unhappy. That conversation really lead me to the major tragedies of 2012 and came to the conclusion that there's no way a happy and content person can take another person's life. Where is the compassion? Where is the love? What is going on in their lives to cause so much destruction and depression and hurt and pain?

Whatever it is. It needs to stop! People will begin to live their lives in fear and that is no way to live the only life that we know of today.

Be safe people!

Stay *(I)nspired, Misha J

Tuesday, December 18, 2012

We Broke Up (Finale)

Robin had been found. What a blessing but things weren't all well. Here's what happened....
    She decided to help a kid that lived in her dorm out by driving him back to school. I know what you're thinking...why on Christmas? He was an international student who didn't have any relatives in our state but his roommates family was welcoming enough to let him stay with them for the holidays. Something went terribly wrong on his visit and he called Robin as a safe haven. Rumor has it, he'd been in love with Robin since freshman year but the two were just friends. Investigators even found a shrine in his closet with nothing but pictures of Robin and quotes from her social network posts. Dude is psycho. They say on the way to campus, Robin's car ran out of gas. No one knows at this point if it started out consensual or not but this kid whose name is Filipe' allegedly raped her. That's why Robin's DNA was found in the vehicle. After forensic testing they traced another DNA sample to Felipe'. Investigators believe he plotted the whole thing because he had another student from our school come and pick them up from the bridge. The whole time Robin's family and friends were worried sick about her she was being kidnapped and held hostage in the shrine closet. Crazy right. Felipe' is now in custody and will be charged presummably with rape and kidnapping. His friend is being charged as an accomplice.

I'm glad Robin was found alive and safe. Well at least now she's safe. I tried going to the hospital to see her but her parents won't let any of us (students/friends) visit. It's understandable. They did let her know I stopped by. She's being held psychiatric ward until they sort this whole thing through. Robin wrote me this letter....
  Dear Desmond,
  My life is a mess. This family of mine is forcing me to take a year off of school. Maybe now                               I have all of their attention and I can begin to rebuild myself and my family. It's been a few weeks now and therapy is helping. Oh by the way Happy New Year! Guess I missed Crys' NYE extravaganza....probably wouldn't have been invited this time around huh? I know sorry won't fix things but I do apologize for messing up my friendship with both you and Crystal. I'm sorry that you had to suffer because of my actions. It was a cry for help. It's like I wanted everything my best friend had. She has a close knit family, they get along, eat dinner at the dinner table together. She has good grades, involved on campus, volunteers. Then to top it off she was independent, had a job, and the best boyfriend in the world. Des, you would do anything for Crystal and I ruined your relationship out of spite and jealousy. Hopefully by being in here I can learn to forgive myself and become a better person. Look, Crystal and you are destined to be together. I was surprised but yesterday she came to visit me. We had a longgggg talk. Not sure if her and I will ever be as close as we were but she did assure me that she still thinks of me as a friend and forgives me. Reach out to her Des. I know she misses you just as much as you miss her....

Please forgive me...

~```Robin~



Robin's letter was touching. It's crazy how crazy she is just from the problems she has at home. I want to help kids like her...The Bible teaches us that we have to forgive and I do forgive Robin because I know God forgives me for my part of the actions.

Like Robin I didn't go to the NYE Extravaganza either...Rick said it was nice and that Crystal threw a great party and enjoyed herself, even danced with some dude. Guess she's moving on... Maybe it's time for me to move on too. They say everything happens for a reason. Maybe God was trying to teach me a lesson. Not to lie or hide information, not to have sex with just anybody, especially when you're in a committed relationship. I knew now what forgiveness was all about. Before I leave for school tomorrow I've made up in my mind that I am going to talk with Travis and Brittney and then see if Crystal had left for school already. Just like Robin had cleared the air with me through her storm I needed to do the same with all three of them.

I invited both Brittney and Travis to meet me at the Spot. They agreed. I told Travis the truth and her Brittney's words ring loudly, "Don't ever doubt me again fool. I have no reason to lie to your insecure ass." Travis looked ashamed but then apologized for the way things had occurred over break. To tell you the truth this was the worst vacation from college ever. It was drama filled. I accepted his apology and they filled me on what I needed to do to get Crystal back. Brittney said that Crys wasn't interested in throwing our relationship completely away. This gave me hope...I still had a chance.

My first thought was to show up at Crystal's house unannounced again but things didn't go to well the last time I tried to surprise her so I called her sister Alicia. She suggested that I come over their house about 4pm. I did! You know a brotha tryna get his girl back!

Crystal tried to act like she wasn't happy to see me...but her dimples and eyes said it all. She was even still wearing the necklace.
           Crystal: So...why a visit and not a call? You could have called me directly you know?
           Desmond: Yes, I know but I didn't know how you'd respond after everything this break.
           Crystal: Well Des, I'm responding as a heartbroken female that was in love. It's not you sleeping with
                         Robin or Brittney that hurts me. It's the fact that you weren't man enough to tell me.
            Desmond:  But I've apologized for that. I want to make it up to you...
            Crystal: Stop with the Babyface lyrics...my plan this break was to see when and if you were going to tell me about you and Robin and then break up with you.  I knew that us going to separate schools and trying to stay together wasn't going to work. Not to mention you have females chasing you every you shoot a basket. I'm upset with myself because I didn't listen to the advice of everyone around me. They doubted us but we were living in a fantasy and my fantasy came crashing down.
           Desmond: Look Crystal, if its like this I guess I'll leave and let you be...you're not the only one that is hurt. Even though I know what I did was wrong, I didn't expect you to be willing to push me away this easily but it's fine. Now I see where we stand.
          Crystal: Oh..where is that?
           Desmond: We stand apart.
I got ready to exit the living room at Crystal's house and she said wait...I turned around and she took the necklace off and threw it at me.

She wasn't ready to forgive me and though my feet were letting me walk away from the only girl I ever loved,   my heart wanted to stay. Maybe one day but for now "We Broke Up"!


         

New Crush ;)

Okay so I have a new crush...
And because its Tuesday...Talent Tuesday goes to him-Tristan Wilds ;)



 I was watching red tails the other, its just something about him that him that just makes me smile. He looks smart, a little nerdy-which is kind of cute lol- and I love to see him act. He just seems like he has such a good heart.

But enough of me crushing lol lets talk about what he has done...



He also dabbles in a little bit of music, singer and songwriter. I just really wish he gets offered more roles would love to see him in more things and see him do more things. I think he can be a really huge actor. I see a lot of passion in him in the roles he plays. Do big things boy! Proud of you ;)


Desire in your Heart

Hopefully you will find solace in this....

On my way to work, I was listening to the radio, and they were playing gospel music and having discussions about God. One thing that was said was this...

God wouldn't put desire in your heart if he didn't believe it was possible.

That made a lot of sense to me. All the desires in your heart that you have and you thinking why me? why not me? When is my time? Well, your time will come. It's all in HIS plan and you have to be patient and have faith. 

So hopefully you can find solace in this simple line because I did. Just remember. Life is a roller coaster. There will be ups and there will be downs. If you've been down then you know that some time it has to go back up again.

Stay *(I)nspired, Misha J

Winter Accessories

(Fashion Fwd Friday)

Hats and Scarves...staying cute and warm ;)

Angora BeretWaffle Stitch Pattern Knit Fringe Scarf
Black Fur Scrunch ScarfPlaid Trapper HatCable Knit Peruvian Hat


Sunday, December 16, 2012

Inspiration from Information

(Motivation Monday)




I read a little bit of everything and I try to absorb it. I believe reading allows me to be well rounded. Going into next year I want to be better than yesterday by putting that stored information to use. No more holding on to these make-up tricks or effective workout plans. It is time to execute. Writers don’t use their talents just for you to read. They want you to us this stuff for good. So that’s my plan! Take all that information you’re storing in your brain or in your room on the bookshelf and share with others and put it to good use in the upcoming year. Remember we all want to be better than yesterday!

My Thoughts are all Over the Place

(Truth is...)


Right now my thoughts are all over the place.

Where Have All the Super Heroes Gone?



(Truth is...)

This past Friday we were all touched, hurt, angered, and saddened by the news of what took place in Connecticut. More than twenty families are without loved ones for a reason that is still unknown. We can all speculate why we believe these events occurred but that is not going to bring back these innocent lives.
               
  What I’ve realized is that we take our childhoods for granted. I know there are people who take their lives for granted as they play Russian Roulette everyday but our childhood is just as precious. Both those children deceased and survivors of this painstaking event lost something on Friday. Their innocence was taken and they will never get it back.
                
As we all prepare for the New Year and sit down and make resolutions we need to band together as a country and make a resolution. Two things we need to work toward as a country for 2013. We need to talk about mental health and revaluate laws and policies pertaining to gun control. Let’s get one thing straight; therapy can no longer be a taboo subject in our homes. There is too much at stake for all of us…this is totally a different subject but who would think you would need to discuss suicide with children under the age of ten? But this is a typical occurrence as bullying is more prevalent. As individuals we hold too much in and just like a pop shaken up and opened we explode and the outcome is never good.
              
  This year our nation has experienced too many events where guns have been the cause of ones demise. There has to be a way to protect ourselves and our families without resorting to violence. Incidents like this only make people more afraid or take precautions into their own hands and try to control their environments but with the wrong means. We need a super hero! And we need him now.
               
  A mother commented that her five year old son asked why she was sad and teary-eyed. Her response was that a man did something very wrong to a lot of people today. The young child looked up at his mother and said well, Batman, Spiderman, and the Power Rangers can fix it and save the day. How profound right? Where have all the super heroes gone? Have they been captured and that’s why we see events like in Connecticut, or in Oregon at the Mall? Or are these super heroes tired of fighting by themselves?
            
    Maybe it’s time for all of us to help Batman, Spiderman, and the Power Ranger and be our own Captain America. Many have said be the change you want to see….the time has come before but we have the floor now to answer back and to do it for all those who lost their innocence to an event we cannot even put a motive to. Ignite your inner super hero in 2013 and show the world that we are agents of change. 

Saturday, December 15, 2012

J.O Message

(Wisdom Wednesday)


 

 "Nothing about you is an accident."

J.O wants you to believe that you can and are very capable of doing anything in this world.
When you say...I am stupid, I am unworthy, I am flawed, I am miserable...you are cursing yourself. You are cursing your future.

"You are inviting disappointment into your life."

You have to replace those negative words with postitive words, with motivational words.
 I am intelligent, I am worthy, I may not be perfect but I am capable of growing and learning, I am blessed....By changing those words you are blessing your future and changing your attitude.

"There are enough things in this world to be against us so don't be against yourself."

Stay *(I)nspired, Misha J

Tuesday, December 11, 2012

Journey to Becoming a Game Changer!

(Talent Tuesday)


Yes the video you are about to see is me! I'm on a journey to becoming a GAME CHANGER y'all! One day I will not only be known as a game changer but a person of many talents....

Check it out...You might learn something!



Share and be inspired! How are you honing your talents?

Time Flies

(Motivational Monday)


Today is my neice's 10th Birthday. It seemed like it was yesterday when she was just a tiny little baby. I mean I was just over my aunt's the other for our ornament exchange and my little cousins are talking about prom and college, and Sunday I photographed my cousin for her maternity photos.

Where is time going? How old am I that my little cousins are seniors talking about prom and college. I had to think...OMG I WENT TO PROM 4 YEARS AGO. What the Hell? And what really gets me is that my cousin, my cousin who is a few months older than me, and grew up together doing everything together is now a teacher, has her own classroom, her own place, and is having a baby. That is so unreal to me. Man Time flies.

Folks cherish all the moments you have with your family and friends, because you'll never get those moments back and the next thing you know it'll be years later.

Do everything you want to do. Have no regrets. Enjoy life.

So Happy 10th Birthday to my niece Jazz, I hope my cousins enjoy their last days of high school, and I'm so excited for my new baby cousin to arrive in January. :)


We Broke-up Part 4

     Four more days had passed and Robin still haven’t been found, Crystal still wasn’t talking to me, my parents were still confused about everything, and my heart was still broken. I’ve never felt like this before and hope to never feel like this ever again. For a second I thought about committing suicide but I quickly came to reality and realized my faith in God that things would soon get better. I was tired of being in this rut and I wanted everything to be back to normal, I just didn’t know what I would do to get it all back.

      I sat at my computer typing and erasing, typing and erasing an email I was going to send Crystal. Finally, I thought that wasn’t the route to go so I called Rick and asked him to do me a favor. Thankfully he agreed and hopefully I would get a chance to talk to Crystal again.

     Later that evening, I met up with Rick at Six Degrees, a quaint cafĂ© near Crystal’s home. We sat in a booth towards the back of the cafĂ© as I talked about plan to get back with Crystal, but as soon as I saw Crystal’s car pull into the parking lot I hopped up and jetted across the cafĂ© and slid on my hat until Rick gave me the signal.
     
     When she walked in, her sexy black boots clicked and clacked against the hard wood floor, her long hair was snuggled under her knitted hat, and her face seemed to have attitude written across her face. I began to think this was a bad idea.

     As I watched her find Rick in the back of the cafĂ©, I began to remember the first time we came to this cafĂ© for our second date. I missed her so much, yet we were in the exact same room. Trying to focus on their conversation, I barely could hear with all the other chatter in the cafĂ©.

Rick: Hey Crystal, how are you?
Crystal: Fine
Rick: So, what’s been going on with you?
Crystal: Nothing
Rick: Uhhh…ready for Winter semester?
Crystal: Rick com’ on stop all this small talk I know you called me here to talk about Desmond.
Rick: True, true. So, look, Desmond really wants to talk to you, but you won’t answer any of his calls.
Crystal: Hmmmm could it be he slept with everybody and their mama?
Rick: Crystal, I’m a man we make mistakes.
Crystal: Yea I know. Ya’ll make too many and don’t give two shits.
Rick: Look Crystal, you gon talk to the man or not?
Crystal: No
Rick: Why?
Crystal: Why do you care?
Rick: Cuz ya’ll make a good couple and you know you want to be with him.
Crystal: Look, I’m over this and I’m over him, so you can tell him that!
Rick: I’ve never seen you like this.
Crystal: Well I’ve never been cheated on like this. Plus you don’t even know the whole story, so I don’t even know why I’m sitting up here humoring you.
Rick: Yea I do, he slept with Robin, you got mad and dumped him.
Crystal: Exactly, YOU DON’T KNOW THE WHOLE STORY! That’s what everybody think that I broke up with him because he slept with Robin; it wasn’t just that. So get your facts straight before you try and be Mr. Fix it and shit.
Rick: Then what is the whole story.
Crystal: None of your business.

I saw Crystal quickly get up and head to the door. Damn it! I hopped up and hurried to the door and attempted to block her from leaving.

Crystal: Dude move out of my way!
Desmond: Crystal, I’m sorry.

When she saw that it was me, her eyes widened and anger quickly filled every inch of her body because the next thing I knew blood was running from my nose all over my coat and I watched her storm to her car and drive away. Rick just looked at me shaking his head.

Sunday, December 9, 2012

A Good Read





Find solace this Sunday by snuggling up with a good book and warm cup of tea or hot chocolate! That's my plan this evening... Currently, I'm reading five books, plus the Bible, and trying to stay up on current events through reading the newspaper. So, today I am going to find solace through reading. Reading takes me into another world and leaves my cares just where they are...I get to adventure into another world and take a ride with characters and find compassion for them. And when I'm not reading a good novel or literary masterpiece, I try to find solutions for the things that are happening in the world...

Reading is definitely fundamental!


~Motivating from a far~ Ari

Friday, December 7, 2012

Fashion or Fasting

Some people will go to the extreme to be able to wear the latest trends. The price of being in style and fashionable goes far beyond what's on a price tag. There are people stealing to look like the women that grace the pages in magazines. The ones that startle me the most are those that starve themselves to fit into clothes. There is a fine line between working out to be healthy and starving yourself to be thin.

How many people watched the Victoria Secret Fashion Show this past week? Lots! And on social networks I noticed a lot of people commenting that they wanted to look like the models and were planning to go on liquid diets the next day...seriously!


Don't let fashion lead you to a life of fasting! Embrace your body no matter what size you are. You can be a fashionista at a size 0 or a size 100. Do they even make those? I'm just saying embrace you and live life fashionably no matter your size!



~Motivating from a far~Ari

Thursday, December 6, 2012

Truth is....The Houstons are ATM!

Say what? Misha? Whats an ATM? 
Well... I call it.....A Total Mess.

 

Have you seen their show?
It's something wrong with all of them. Now I didn't watch every single episode I couldn't stand looking at it and this is me we're talking about. A semi-fan of reality tv. I'm picky put it that way. But I was surprised to see Krissy drinking and smoking like she was on TV! in the first few episodes and her family has something to say about it but nobody was doing anything about it! Isn't she 18/19 years old?

Then I watch last night's episode which I believe was the finale and just the way she talk and present herself is just sad. There was a part in the episode where her aunt was talking to her about her possible singing career and she says, "What else am I supposed to do?" Really????? This girl believes that her only option in life is to sing? Clearly she doesnt have a passion for that nor have an idea what to do with her life and its sad that no one has given her direction for that.

Then theres her aunt Pat who neglects her own husband and daughter to tend to Kristina's every single need and want. Yes we know that her mother Whitney has passed and she's grieving and is trying to do a lot for her to help her through this tough part in her life, but this woman does anything that Kristina wants. On last night's episode her aunt finds an apartment for Kristina and her brother/boyfriend-dont forget he was flirting with another woman earlier in the episode-and then furnishes the apartment for her. Then get this....Kristina calls her aunt tells her that she wants to have a dinner party THAT night, which means she wants her aunt (Pat) to put it all together...And she says YES! and does it for her. Say what? No! You better plan that s*** three weeks from now not today! You crazy?

I mean I didn't even watch the whole season, and I know reality tv isn't total reality but that is quite accurate- I believe-and Kristina is not the only person that needs help.

I say all of that to say that its sad how The Houstons agreed to do this show and portray themselves the way they did.

And I also say all of that to say, don't allow this behavior to occur within your life and family. Have more respect for you and your family.

As for the Houstons....TRY HARDER AND SEEK HELP!

Wednesday, December 5, 2012

Word to the Wise...

Word to the Wise...Maximize Your Potential! 



I read an article in Ebony magazine that really got me to thinking. I've been striving to try new things and take risks all to maximize my potential but am I really doing it.

The author of the article suggests '7 Key Decisions to Help Maximize Your Potential'. Take a look....

1. Don't Downsize Your Potential
      -Often the things we didn't do is what we regret the most; do not let that stop you

2. Focus On Solutions, Not Problems
      -Self explanatory yet easier said than done

3. Choose To Be Authentic
     -Stop putting up a facade and just be you;
     - Don't let your character be misleading and people describe you in so many ways that you forget who                                       you are yourself 


4. Choose Courage Over Fear
      -If we let our fears rule our lives we may never experience the life intended for us to live 

5. Choose Relationships Wisely & Nature Them Intentionally 
     -Let go of deteriorating friendships and relationships
     -Build relationships with other with the intention to be a great friend and mate
     -Don't start relationships with people based off what you can do for each other 

6. Actively Seek Feedback & Grow From It
     -I always say there is nothing wrong with a little self-evaluation 
     -Ask others' advice for how you can change in different aspects of your life
     -But don't ask if you don't want to listen or improve on their counsel 

7. Know Your Purpose & Take Daily Action In The Direction of Your Vision
    -Can't help too much there because I am still seeking for a direct answer on my purpose and figuring out my vision for a life fulfilled



Now those are the some tips to help you maximize your potential with a little feedback from yours truly. Don't just read, ACT on IT! I am! 

This has been your weekly dose of Wisdom Wednesday!


~Motivating from a far~ Ari

Tuesday, December 4, 2012

The Painted Pretzel

I don't know if you watch Shark Tank, but I love the show. It's really inspiring, and the sharks are hilarious I might add, and there are tons of talent that come through the tank.
One that stuck out to me was Miss. Raven Thomas, owner of The Painted Pretzel.





I was really impressed with her pitch and she is a black woman so that gave me a lot of motivation and inspiration, and hope because she walked out of the tank with a deal with Mark Cuban and it seems as though her business is just blooming and is in such a better place before she went on shark tank.

Now I haven't tasted any of her products yet, but I am definitely going to order from her website, not just because it looks good, but to support small businesses as well.

Check out her website...https://www.thepaintedpretzel.com/
And an interview with Raven Thomas ...
This is a woman who left her job involved in criminal intelligence to pursue this dream of hers.
Now that takes GUTS & TALENT to do what she did as well as others that go to the shark tank.

Check out Shark Tank on Friday evenings on ABC.

Stay *(I)nspired, Misha J

Movies=Peace

Sunday Solace

There is nothing like relaxing to a movie. My movie buddy know that-----> Ari lol
So here are some movies that were released on DVD recently...

The Odd Life of Timothy GreenThe Dark Knight RisesSparkle





Men in Black 3Hope Springs

And the only movie I have seen out of these is Sparkle lol...sooo kick back and watch some of these new releases. :)

Monday, December 3, 2012

Motivation!

It is December already! That's your motivation! Make the last month of 2012 count. Plant those final seeds this month to see the growth and reap the benefits of your harvest in the New Year (2013)!


Yes it is time to start thinking of resolutions and reflecting on this past year! Today be productive, progress and leave the stresses of last week behind!


~Motivating from a far~ Ari

Truth Is...We all need to Protect Ourselves

This past Saturday people across the globe celebrated World AIDS Day. For some of us it was just another day that came and went. For others, you got tested, reflected on friends/family who have been affected by the disease, or helped to fight the cause. Why is HIV/AIDS a disease we only discuss one day a year and on  that one day it may not get noted at all?

That's a question I often ask. It always seems like the Winter months are those in which people want to be more giving and caring but why not care all year round?

It is important to understand that HIV/AIDS in America and foreign countries is at a progressive high. Majority of new cases of HIV/AIDS is seen in youth ages 14-24 (most high among women) and senior citizens ages 60 and up! We've know that this disease was an epidemic but not it is a plague that we haven't even begun to put out on the fire on in such a hypersexualized cultural society.

I commend Magic Johnson for sharing his story as he has been HIV positive for 25 years. Take a look at his story.


Imagine being at the top of your career and leaving it all behind? Imagine people attacking your life based on a stigmatic lifestyle they believe is connected with the disease but doesn't have a place in your home? Imagine  your friends walking away from you? I encourage you to watch the full documentary to see how Magic is helping others through telling his story.

I commend Marsha Ambrosius for telling this story through music....
See how simple that was. Thank you Marsh for showing this young culture that this is just like a pack of Now and Laters. Protect yourself NOW to Prevent Later!


I also commend Alicia Keys for her work with her foundation Keep A Child Alive! Here's the work she's doing....
You have to educate yourself on the disease in order to help the cause and that is what Ms. Keys has done. Not only is she helping others but she is reaching out to educate others so they too can help.

When I was in high school I interned with an infectious disease department at a local hospital. By far one of the greatest experiences of my life. The things I learned equipped me for my adolescent years and I was able to share with my friends. A movie that the education counsel had me watch was called "One Week". Each year on World AIDS Day I share it with family and friends so they can see how real this disease is...


I'm going to leave you with this short film in it's 2-part essence....and you tell me...will you protect now to prevent later...educate others...and fight for the cause?



Saturday, December 1, 2012

Stay Warm ;)

Fashion Fwd Friday!
It's getting colder and colder folks. We want you to stay warm & fashionable of course;)
Here are a few ideas for staying warm this season.

LoVe

For Wisdom Wednesday, its all about love...



I was listening to my Jessie J earlier and I love a specific lyric in her song Nobody's Perfect.
"Treat the people you love like you want to be loved."

This is beyond true. Often times people throw around the word Love so much it no longer possess much meaning. People treat others all types of ways and always expect to get treated with love and respect in return. I'm not sure exactly how that adds up, but it is just plain wrong, especially when you don't take others' feelings into consideration.

Whether its a relationship or friendship TREAT THE PEOPLE YOU LOVE LIKE YOU WANT TO BE LOVED. Go above and beyond for those you love. Let you know how much they are appreciated.

Yes we are humans and we make mistakes, and when you make a mistake, don't just say you're sorry, show that you are sorry, and work towards building their trust again.

In my experiences with love in relationships, I am at a point in my life where I feel as though a lot of people especially men these days don't understand the meaning of the word LOVE, and for future loves I prefer that a man do not tell me he love me, even if he does, I just want to see it. That's all. Plain and simple....I just want to see it....That's just my preference and my opinion.

But think about what love is to you and how you feel about it when it comes to the relationships and friendships in your life.
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